As you know, a martial arts instructor can have an incredibly influential role in their student’s life. Therefore, it is important that we use our influence for the betterment of our students and that our messages are consistently positive and uplifting.
Here’s a technique that is fun and can have some amazing results. We use it primarily with our junior students, but with a little imagination the concept can be applied to people of all ages.
It goes like this: Imagine that a junior student approaches you and says they have a Band-Aid on their finger and doesn’t think they can do push-ups today, you say: "That’s what I like about you! You can train hard and do push-ups even when you have a bandage on your finger." Inevitably the child is more encouraged and participates in the following activity with pride. It works with practically every excuse from just being tired, to having missed a month of classes and everything in between. We can't tell you how many times our instructors have successfully used this strategy and it never ceases to amaze us.
This method works wonders! Here are some of the reasons this works so well:
So, instead of falling prey to sympathizing with or agreeing to someone's diminished or limited view of themselves, be sure to build up their confidence by sharing with them, "That’s what I like about you!"
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